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tyler_durden
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   Topic: Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage
Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 12:24pm |
Which one is better? many of TEDies will be on verge of marriage and a lot of them are already married...so those who are about to begin the journey can put their points...and those who have already begun this journey can put some points based on their experiences....
I would vote for love marriage...if a person has had 2-3 years of courtship....
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Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 12:30pm |
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Tyler Jee, achanak se yeh marriage ka baat ! Kuchh gadbad toh nehin hai na !! Anyway I have done love marriage, but I have faith on both forms of marriage. It all depends on the leval of understanding the couple have. Good understanding makes the life pleasantful, which is possible both the ways !
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tyler_durden
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Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 12:35pm |
gadbad hi hai sir...tabhi to message post kar raha hun....life poori filmi ho gayi hai....kabhi khushi kabhi gum types  ....
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Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 1:00pm |
Doesn't make a difference whether it's love before or after marriage. And marriage is life partnership where one must be compromising, accommodative and most importantly learn to love UNCONDITIONALLY.
On a side note, avoid same sex marriage (media reports suggest that it's gaining popularity in the West).
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tyler_durden
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Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 1:08pm |
i knew it would come from u sir..... west ki baten.... 
love after marriage....is it really love or liking for each other?? sahcharyajanit lagaav!!! bole to saath rahne se uttpann hone wala lagaav....
and u rightly mentione the other ingredients for success of any marriage or for that matter any relation...being accomodative....
but compromising....and then loving unconditionally....this is too confusing for me....and this is sounding godly....humans dont love unconditionally....and they dont like to compromise ........
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Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 1:09pm |
Ladki ke chakkar me mat phas jaana, nahi toh pachtava hoga.
Some LoveGuru here on TED may sort out Kunal's problem.
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On a side note, avoid same sex marriage (media reports suggest that it's gaining popularity in the West). |
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Posted: 12/Feb/2008 at 1:12pm |
Tyler jee, Love or Arranged Marriage: all is okay...but with only one condition.
It should be with the consent and blessings of boy's family and girl's family. If someone is in love marriage kind of situation, it is his/her job to pataofy his/her own family and the other side's family. Never hurt elders in anyway, for a supposedly blissful love life.
Arranged or Love, both are on the same level for me. Just make sure the other person's background check is done thoroughly and of their family, before making any decision. Love Happens. Human beings are full of love...so if two opposite sex people stay together love will HAPPEN. It is not dependent on Love or Arranged Marriage.
After sometime, more than "romance/pleasure/passion", "friendship" counts. So make sure you choose who seems to be a better human being(good liStener, caring yet self-respecting).
Edited by omshivaya - 12/Feb/2008 at 1:17pm
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